We all miss Gizzy.
Mom slows the car machine down as she drives up the driveway every day to look at the window where Gizzy would wait for her. She says she doesn't expect to see Gizzy, but she'd like it if either Jasmine or I would watch for her, or greet her at the door.
She says it's weird not to see Gizzy waiting for her to get out of the rainbox every morning. And there is no reason to let the water run in the bathroom sink any more, because both Jasmine and I drink from the various water bowls we have around the house.
Gizzy always was wherever Mom was, watching her, or napping nearby. Now, sometimes she finds herself all alone in a room, and that's new for her.
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Jasmine misses her pal. She and Gizzy would nap next to each other in Mom's chair. They didn't fight. He liked the high places and she didn't. They could both sleep on Mom's bed at night. They took turns on her lap.
Jasmine was Mom's cat, and Gizzy was Mr Karate's cat for about 7 years. Then Mr Karate went away to college. Gizzy was lonely and spent more time near Mom. Jasmine didn't really like it at first, but they worked it out. When Gizzy got sick, he wanted to spend as much time as he could in Mom's lap, and Jasmine kinda got left out. So now that Gizzy is gone, Jasmine wants Mom back as her special person. I guess I understand.
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I miss Gizzy a lot. I know he was a geezer cat, sick and old, but when I came to live here, he was really nice to me. He let me lie next to him. He'd wash my ears. We'd play a little bit. He didn't like it when I squished him when we were on the cat hammock together, but I liked to be near him. Now I don't have anybody to cuddle up next to. Jasmine doesn't want me anywhere near her, and I'm just not ready to sit in Mom's lap, or let her pick me up.
When Gizzy was sick, he would sleep next to Mom on the bed. In the morning, before Mom would wake up, I would lie down next to him. Mom would wake up, and reach down to pet us, and she would pet me too. I think she even pet my belly a coupla times, but it was okay, cause I knew she was stuck under the covers. Now, Jasmine either sleeps at the end of Mom's bed, and watches the door from inside the bedroom, or she sits on the big blue chair in the table room and guards it from outside. If I even try to get into Mom's bedroom, she hisses at me. So if I wanted to sleep on the bed or on the comfy chair in there, I can't.
If Jasmine is in the kitchen, she hisses at me if I try to come in. I am lucky that I can jump higher than she can, so I can jump onto the counter to get my crunchies. The table in the table room is really big, plenty big for all of us, but if I try to get up there in the morning when Mom is eating breakfast, Jasmine has a huge hissy fit, and fights me to make sure I don't get up there. And I can't even THINK about getting next to Mom when she is at the computer. Heavens to Murgatroyd, that's Jasmine's spot!
That leaves Mom to give me some touching and cuddling. If you can believe it, I jump on the counter and STARE at her, and MEOW like crazy trying to get her attention. It took a few tries but she finally understood that I wasn't really interested in treats, or more food, that I really wanted her to give me scritches and pets. I'm training her, so she'll KNOW what I want.
Well, ok, I'll take treats too, or more food, if I can get it.
19 comments:
Millie
It's hard when someone you love isn't there in physical form anymore. But, Gizzy is watching over you and your Mom and Jasmine. He may be whispering in Jasmine's ear...it's OK let Millie snuggle up to you once in awhile. You wait and see, he'll work his magic for you.
Abby
I'm so sorry about Gizzy. I know how hard it is to lose a loved one. Hang in there.
Pam and the kids
Millie, so sorry to hear that you, Jasmine and your mom are missing Gizzy. It will get better with time. My mom went through that with the cat who came before, and eventually things do get better, and you will be left with all your wonderful memories of Gizzy.
Lots of purrs and hugs being sent your way.
Gizzy was a sweet boy, so of course you all miss him. We even miss him and our eyes are leaking reading about how much you miss him. It'll get better with time, but in the meantime feel free to teleport over. We're good snugglers and don't hiss at anycat.
Aw, I'm sorry you're all missing The Giz. If you need a manly mancat for anything I can teleport over to help around the house, sit in windows, snuggle, etc.
oh its so sad. My human's understand completely. When the two old ladies my human had passed away a year ago, she felt so empty and lost and kept looking for them in the places they used to sit! You are on the right track with keeping your human busy by training her!
Sympathy and purrs
HRH Yao-Lin xx
This is so sad. Thanks for sharing your sad thoughts with us. Momma says it helps to sometimes put things in writing. We are thinking of you. Gizzy was a true sweetheart and is sorely missed.
Patches
We are sorry that you all are so sad, and we understand. You will find your way together and always cherish your memories of Gizzy.
It is hard when one of our family leaves us, and you must allow yourself time to grieve and remember Gizzy. But also remember that he will always be with you, inside your heart. In time, you will think of Gizzy with smiles instead of tears.
I'm sorry things are so different without Gizzy. Hopefully Jasmine will start to be nicer to you.
Kaze
We're really sorry about Gizzy. And we're sorry Jasmine isn't too nice to you. But hopefully things will get better for you and your mom. She must miss Gizzy a lot.
Millie, you write so movingly about life w/o Gizzy. Sometimes the grief of loss is so much that I wonder if it's worth the attachment in the first place. Then I come to my senses and realize how impoverished my life would be w/o the love of and love for others. I just really, really, really hope we all get to see each other again.
Gosh, now I'm getting all leaky.
Millie, I'm so sorry you miss your friend. I hope over time Jasmine will come to like you, and that you start to enjoy being around your mom more. All of you will need to adjust, and it will take time.
Tara
Aw. I'm so sorry. My eyes are a little leaky. Sara, Bogdan and Katrina send purrs.
-The Morning Scratch human
We miss Gizzy too! But we remember him every day when we snuggle on our quilt!
We think of Gizzy effuryday when we snuggle on our kwilts. We'z hoping dat Jasmine reelizes dat she cood haf another frend in yoo, sumone she can snuggle wif. Oh, oh, mom's eyes is leeking again. We'z glad yoo is training yoor mom to give yoo attenshun and pets.
Awww you are missing Gizzy, that is to be expected. But good that you are training your mum to give you extra love.
Purrs to you, Jasmine and your Mom. Our eyes leak for you.
ah millie, i'm glad you're working on training mom. it sounds like she's a smart lady, and will get it figured out.
love
--suz
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